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Stockholm Syndrome

Added: February 24, 2023 | Runtime: 10:52 | 42,137 views

Erotic fantasies represent a realm of human nature frequently characterized by regressive instincts and unresolved power struggles. We often fantasize about taboo experiences we may never wish to enact, imagining others in ways that feel misaligned with our personas that have been crafted to solidify social connections. Beneath all fantasies are core, universally experienced human feelings like worry, guilt, inferiority, helplessness, shame, and rejection. Our fantasies help us imagine the ideal conditions in which we might enjoy unbridled pleasure.

Many gay men grow up feeling unwanted, rejected and at risk for physical and emotional violence. Many of us have been personal targets of violent acts as well as hypersensitized to vicarious trauma across our shared communities. At the same time, a great many of us fantasize about forced sex, kidnapping, incest and sexual assaults in varying degrees. Often, we feel confronted by the awareness of these fantasies, and we don’t know how to harmonize them alongside our fights for justice, equality, and spiritual ascension. Yet, our fantasies themselves are amoral, symbolic maps to our unconscious wounding. In them, the fantasizer is in complete control of those circumstances that, in the material world, are uncontrollable, leaving us helpless in the face of our suffering. It is within fantasy that we are able to touch that dimension of human reality, bringing pleasure to the pain of our collective lives as human animals.

Those who enjoy exploring their sexual shadows may venture into these controversial role plays. For many, kidnap scenes are a kind of edge play, a dramatization of consensual non-consent. They are a particular category of D/s in which conquest and surrender deliver a particular domain of psychological fulfillment. For the sub, at the root of many kidnapping fantasies are longings to be so important, so desirable, so wanted, that the “aggressor” cannot help himself, cannot tolerate not having us–even to the point of forceful violence if necessary. For the Dom, there is power to be attained in delivering this experience. For those who play in this arena, the underlying healing context that emerges is one of closeness, union and desirability: qualities that we have been torn from us throughout history.

Video concept by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com

Recent Comments:
I couldn't wait until Monday so I decided to release this a few days early :)
thank you thank you thank you for posting that early!!!! What a great start to the weekend! Alex Mecum is soooo amazing - a talented actor and hot porn star to boot - it's great to see him back. The video is a hot window into gritty taboo dark fantasy exploration ... the themes Finn wrote on above are played out masterfully. Very nicely done.
Davey Wavey
Yes! We filmed three other videos with Alex where he will be front and center... but this is a great tease to start!
thank you! what a nice early gift...hot!
Nice gift! And thanks for the early release too! Leo... mmmmm!
Soooo glad you released this one early! Hottest vid I’ve seen in a long time!! <3
Kudos once again to Finn for an insightful commentary putting this in perspective.
Hot scene but it really sucks that we don't get to see the guy's facial expressions when they're cumming- just the same dicks close ups.
So much fun and great setting up the intro and outro showing people how to set up this type of dialogue
My favorite. I love when the taboo is explored.
WOW! I'm still panting! That was staggering and there needs to more - NOW. Could have been a bit more fight at the beginning, and at stages of the rape, but my heart may not have kept beating properly (old hearts, you know 😉). Now it's taken anyway, by that blond mugger. Although, to think about it, I'm not certain I could take his arm like that (WHAT? That wasn't his arm? Whoosh!)
This is the first video I see here now that I've joined, and I love it!!! :) It's very liberating for me to see that there are humans who like to enjoy their more »taboo« interests together. In my opinion, nothing sexual is really taboo if it's consensual, safe and based on trusting communication and love. <3

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