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Elements of Desire: Lust

Today, we're excited to bring the third of the four Elements of Desire: Lust.

According to sex and intimacy coach Finn Deerhart, creator of the Elements of Desire:

At times, we may move into our heads during sex, away from our bodies. In these moments, in order to continue, we depend on fantasies, outside validation, programmed images of sexiness, objectification, and goal oriented sex.

Male sexuality is often reduced and over simplified as a biological imperative to spread seed or to “get off.” This explanation does not acknowledge the relational components that are, the foundation, the underlying motivators for sex. The very nature of gay sex is antithetical to the biological model alone, because it is rooted in identity, a social construct. At the same time, as men, we often lack a vocabulary to describe our experiences of ourselves emotionally, sexually, and otherwise.

We may lean into routines, our “winning formulas,” compartmentalization, or even blaming our partners for a sense of boredom that we encounter. We may think that great sex is circumstantial-- and ideal body, an exciting setting, a fantasy realized. This all feels really great! It’s still sex. But it’s limiting sex. When we begin to let go of our conditioned templates, we access our innate senses of Eroticism. To begin this process, we notice inhibitions and consciously investigate them as routes to healing, and ultimately, ecstasy.

In our imaginations, sex and intimacy are often separate. However, sex, itself, is one of the most intimate expressions of our humanity--whether with a life partner, a total stranger, or anyone in between. The division that we perceive between intimacy and sex is not as much in what we do, as it is in how we imagine what we are doing.

In the Elements of Desire, each Element emphasizes a specific set of skills that build upon each other and can be experienced in layers. These skills are useful in creating an interpretive framework around what sex means to us, personally. Think of practicing these Elements like playing scales so that you can then play chords, so that you can compose beautiful music that emanates from the core of your being.

Concept created by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com

recent comments:

Andy

02/24/2020

Pure, raw, animalistic, sweaty, primal, grunting sex! What a delight!

perky

02/24/2020

Harder is so beautifully photogenic.

Norm

02/25/2020

Wow! Two sexy, hairy men being versatile with each other. Loved the grunting, the sniffing of hairy armpits, the sharing breath with each other. This has got to be one of the hottest videos yet. Keep them cumming!

Kevin

02/25/2020

One of my all-time favorites. So lustful and pleasurable.

Erik3r

02/28/2020

Whoa and WOW!!! Wild lust is so hot to watch!

hairyclearwater

02/29/2020

This is the most beautiful, intense scene you have ever produced! Two incredibly masculine men, complete equals, engaging all the senses, immersed in complete and absolute enjoyment of themselves and each other! Please give us more work like this, absolutely incredible! Thank you, Will and Chris, for your authentic natural passion.

Shawn

03/01/2020

Holy hell, I can smell that room from here! WOOF!!!!

Empatheros

03/05/2020

F-ing fantastic! So beautiful. Thank you thank you Finn, Will (OMG, I have it soooo bad for you, dear man), and Chris... putting the vavoom in versatile. Much gratitude! @Shawn: If only we could truly smell that room!

spiros

03/14/2020

so so so hot!!! the surrender to it all; totally in love with both!

DM

04/09/2020

Awesome scene. Both men getting the ass they want.

Juan1203

05/26/2020

Wow, what a hot and intense scene. Both men so into it!

Tony

06/11/2020

Will is really gorgeous. I have had a boyfriend like Will, making you enjoy but also relaxed and safe.

dividedbi88

06/25/2020

love the energy through out the scene and although unusual imo the thank you was equally satisfying

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