A few years ago, I spent a summer living with my then-boyfriend.
One issue that I needlessly wrestled with was jerking off. Sure, sex with my partner was fun and meaningful. Being inside him felt great – emotionally and physically. But just because you enjoy something immensely doesn’t mean that you always want it. Sometimes, it wasn’t sex with my partner that I craved so much as a good, old-fashioned jerk off session.
Lacking the language and skills to express this desire in a way that still validated my partner, I resorted to sneaking my jerk off sessions whenever I could. If my boyfriend left for work, I’d plan to masturbate in his absence.
The truth is, being sneaky about masturbating was really the only strategy that I knew. Growing up, I’d sneak to the basement computer to jerk off whenever an opportunity arose. In college, I’d jerk off while my roommate was at class. The sneakiness stays with you.
And yet, our pleasure and our orgasms deserve to be celebrated. They need not be hidden from our partners or the world, or else the cycle of shame perpetuates indefinitely.
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For any of us who still feel guilt or shame about self-pleasure, today’s video can be food for thought – or even a conversation starter with a lover. It’s an opportunity to re-affirm our love for our partner or partners – but also an invitation to more openly communicate about the role of masturbation in relationships. And perhaps, in doing so, we can replace just a little bit of that shame with some potent seeds of joy.
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