Do you have ten minutes? Then I have a sex game for you to try.
Find a partner and set a timer for five minutes. During this time, you’ll be calling the shots. You can ask for anything and everything that turns you on. It can be anything from oral sex to toe sucking to dirty talk. Voice your desires and delight in their fulfillment.
If something is a “no” for your partner, make sure they feel empowered to express their limitations.
Then, at the end of the five minutes, it’s time for a pole switch. Now, your partner has five minutes to express their needs – and it’s your turn to provide fulfillment.
It’s not about cumming or getting off; it’s about switching up the dynamic. Often times, so much of what we do in sex is programmed into us by porn, society and culture. The taller guy tops, for example. Or the smaller dick bottoms. This game of pole switching allows us to subvert expectations and tap into what’s authentic for us.
I loved watching Pierce Paris and Hunter Graham play this game in Pole Switch. You can watch a free preview or join Himeros.tv for the full video.
At first, much of the sex feels expected. Hunter, who is seemingly half the size of Pierce, enjoys being dominated and fucked in the pool. The slow motion shot of Hunter being fucked is one of my Himeros.tv favorites. But when it’s Pierce’s turn, things go in an unexpected direction. Pierce asks to be fingered – and quickly realizes that Hunter’s hands are quite small. He asks for more and more fingers, until Hunter has his entire hand inside Pierce.
And thus was born our first fisting scene.
I can’t say it was planned, but it certainly happened. Though it was a lot to behold and film, it perfectly captures the message of this game and concept. The bigger, hung hunk was dominated by the smaller twink – and, I’ll admit it, it was pretty fucking hot to watch.
So, let’s put ten minutes on the clock. It’s time for pole switch.
Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Watch free previews or join at himeros.tv.