Today, you have a homework assignment: While watching yourself in the mirror, jerk off.
Witness yourself being aroused. Release any shame or discomfort that you might have around seeing yourself as sexy. Simply watch yourself – without any judgment – as your body fills with sexual energy. And experiment what it feels like to not care what others think as you express your sexual power.
This week’s video is titled Man In The Mirror featuring Diego Sans. In this fur and foreskin-friendly video, Diego pleasures himself in front of a mirror – bravely, on camera – but the real audience is him. He gets lost in the pleasure, and shows us what it’s like to truly see yourself. See a free preview here or join Himeros.tv for the full video.
As a teenager growing up with limit internet access and a dial up modem, my jerk off sessions tended to be pretty creative. Internet porn took ages to download. And I didn’t have access to magazines or videos. I did, however, have a mirror. And I spent many afternoons sitting on top of the washing machine – so as to get a better view of the bathroom mirror – while pleasuring myself.
In those early days before social media and without much awareness of body image or gay culture, I found it easy to see myself as sexy. Objectifying my reflection was uncomplicated – and fun. Nowadays, as the result of decades of conditioning, it’s easier to criticize my body than to compliment it. Looking in the mirror and seeing myself as sexy is a lot more challenging.
A few weeks ago, knowing that this video was soon to be released, I gave it a try. I stood before my naked reflection and started by touching the parts of my body that are most pleasurable. I teased my nipples, and observed as my body responded with shudders. I stroked my sides, shoulders and arms with gentle brushes of my fingernails. I squeezed my neck and twisted my nipples harder. I have to admit, it was hot. I was hot.
So, now it’s your turn. Find a mirror and give it a try. There’s no need to hide the beauty and sexiness of who you are.
Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Watch free previews or join at himeros.tv.