Today, let’s talk about a practice called edging.
The term edging refers to bringing yourself (or someone else) right up to the point of orgasm, but then postponing the orgasm by stopping, slowing down or changing up the kind of sexual stimulation. It’s a build up of energy – and then pulling back. This can be done for hours, days or even weeks.
People edge for a variety of reasons. It can result in more intense orgasms. It can be an exciting way to incorporate power play. It can break routines. It can test limits. And a lot of guys just find it to be fun!
In this week’s Himeros.tv video, we teamed up with Logan Cross and Diego Sans for a documentary-style porn video titled Inside Edging. You can watch a free preview here. Or, become a Himeros.tv member to watch the full-length video.
The video opens with a discussion of edging facilitated by yours truly. And then, Logan and Diego get to try edging for themselves. Afterwards, we do a little de-brief to process the experience.
First things first, the video is hot. There’s something thrilling about watching two hot men bring each other right up to the edge. And Logan’s flexibility certainly results in some creative, droll-worthy positions.
But my favorite part of the video has nothing to do with erotic imagery. My favorite part of the video is when Diego discloses that edging isn’t really for him. I appreciate his honesty – and it’s an important reminder to all of us that the sexual journey is about experimentation. It’s about trying a little of this and a little of that, and discovering what works for you.
Being open to the possibilities doesn’t mean you’re going to end up enjoying all of them! And that is an important truth that helps us explore sex with freedom and without judgment.
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