A few weeks ago, we filmed a Himeros.tv shoot in Amsterdam.
On our first day of filming, something unexpected happened. One of the models, who had recently experienced an act of sexual violence, realized that he wasn’t ready to film. I was grateful for his ability to speak up and ask for what he needed – especially when what he needed was difficult to express. He returned home to his partner. It’s what he needed.
Before he left, he made an impression on all of us. We appreciated his candor and honesty and vulnerability. He shared insights from his experience in porn and as a rope-tying expert. We were all deeply moved by his presence, and wanted to honor him in some way.
And so we did honor him – and the other survivors of sexual violence – in the best way that we could. Through a video. It’s titled “Boys, Boners and Bondage” and it features Bishop Black and Kayden Gray. Watch a free preview here.
I’ve written a bit about the healing power of sex. As someone who finds myself seeking answers from science rather than spirit, I understand that some of these conversations can feel a bit obtuse or un-relatable. And yet, I’m also open to the possibility that there’s something more to our sexual energy. Our sexual energy does have power. It creates life and drives so many of our thoughts and actions.
As such, the idea of directing that energy through an intention doesn’t feel impossible. In fact, this video felt real for me. It felt real to the models. And it felt real to the crew. In our hearts, we held an intention – and offered it up to someone we love.
When you watch today’s video, you’re invited to share in the intention. As you pleasure yourself, hold this model in your heart. As you approach orgasm, offer up your love, joy and ecstasy to those affected by sexual violence.
Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Watch free previews or join at himeros.tv.
