Growing up, I was always told that it’s better to give than to receive. But is that also true when it comes to oral sex? I’m not sure. The truth is, when it comes to giving or receiving head, both feel pretty fucking amazing.
Receiving head feels great for obvious reasons. After all, our genitals are buzzing with nerve endings that are eager for stimulation. But why does giving head feel so good? As is the case for our butts, it’s not like we have a prostate in the back of our throat.
I can only speak for myself. And for me, giving head feels great because it’s all about the other person. If I’m with someone who is totally turned on, it brings me pleasure. The pleasure doesn’t arrive via nerving endings; instead, it’s something that happens in my brain – and yet, it’s just as powerful.
For this week’s Himeros.tv video, aptly titled The Joy of Giving Head (check out a free preview), we wanted to share some of that pleasure. We’ve all seen oral sex videos that demonstrate the receiver’s pleasure. His head tilts back. He moans and groans. And, inevitably, he ejaculates. But what happens when the camera focuses on the giver’s pleasure. And what if the giver ejaculates?
The Joy of Giving Head features real-life boyfriends Beau Reed and Trent King. It’s a hot, passionate scene that we filmed in Toronto. The guys have the sort of chemistry that you see between real lovers – and the scene culminates in a juicy, slow-motion ejaculation that is among the most dramatic that I’ve ever seen filmed. Beau ejaculates with a force that could only be described as explosive.
They say that you can’t give without receiving. And if that’s true, you can’t give pleasure without receiving some of that pleasure in return. If I remember correctly, I think it might be Newton’s Third Law of Physics: If object A pleasures object B, then object B must exert pleasure of equal magnitude back on object A.
Sounds like solid logic to me.
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