Imagine this: Your muscles contract and tighten in joy. Your throat gasps for air, with your heart and lungs stimulated. Tension is created, and then released. Your blood flow increases as a surge of endorphins rush through your body. Your body is taken over, and it feels so good. Then, you relax into stillness.
In the above paragraph, am I describing an orgasm? Or laughter? The truth is, it could be either. And that’s exactly the point.
In my living room, I have a needlepoint pillow sewn with the words: Laughter Is Another Form Of Orgasm. Indeed, it is. In fact, the two are so inextricably linked that they often occupy the same space. How many times have you laughed after having an orgasm? Probably a lot.
The truth is, a lot of us take sex very seriously. And when life imitates art, I blame porn. Porn is so goddamn serious that you often wonder if the models are engaged in sex – or taking a calculus exam. I mean, come on!
Smile! Laugh! Have a little fun! Make a joke! Fart in his face!
Today’s Himeros.tv video is titled Laughter is Orgasm. Featuring Windom Gold and Blake Turner, it’s an invitation for each of us to become a little more playful about sex. Using name-calling and role play, the models combine ridiculousness and humor with passionate sex. Check out the free preview.
But laughter doesn’t just feel good. It also helps us connect to one another. Cracking a joke or making someone smile helps break the ice, and it can be a first step in letting one’s guard down.
In my own experience, I’ve found this to be particularly helpful during hookups. If you’re meeting a guy off of Grindr or Scruff, for example, you both may be feeling nervous and uncomfortable. But if you can make him laugh, it alleviates some of that tension. It clears the air and helps facilitate better sex.
Since laughter and orgasm are so inextricably linked, let me end with a simple question: Did you hear about the gay letter? In only came in male boxes.
Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Learn more at Himeros.tv.