In the days before hookup apps and dating websites, communicating about your sexual interests was a bit more subtle – and, often discreet. And that’s how the hanky code came to be.
The hanky code is a color-coded system that uses handkerchiefs to indicate preferred sexual fetishes, the type of sex someone is seeking and whether they’re looking to top or bottom. Wearing a handkerchief on the left side of the body indicates a top or dominant role, while wearing it on the right side indicates a bottom or submissive role.
The list of colors and patterns is practically endless, though certain colors are more commonly used than others – and, even though the hank code was popular in the 1970s, some expressions of those colors still exist today. I’ve seen guys in colored jock straps, for example, or men wearing colored wrist or arm bands to signify their interests.
One such color is yellow.
Yellow, as you can probably imagine, indicates an interest in watersports – and I’m not talking about swimming and jet skis. Watersports is an umbrella term to describe a variety of piss play from golden showers to bed wetting and everything in between.
When preparing for today’s video, titled Jock Frot Piss (free preview here), one of the models mentioned an interest in watersports. As such, we modified the script to make it happen. And, in doing so, we found a few creative ways to introduce some hanky code-inspired hints to foreshadow the action. As the video opens, for example, the models are hanging a yellow towel while standing in a dandelion-covered lawn. Discerning viewers might notice a bright yellow forsythia flowering in the background. And even if they miss the clues, all are welcome to delight in the video’s golden shower conclusion.
There’s a lot to discuss about watersports, but I’m going to save that discussion for our next episode of Himeros LIVE featuring special guests from the Gayish Podcast.
Watersports aside, we also wanted this video to explore frotage sex. Commonly referred to as frot sex, it’s a type of sexual conduct that usually involves genital-to-genital stimulation and generally avoids anal penetration. Because of the decreased risk of some STDs, frot sex became especially popular during the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s and 1990s.
Whether it’s experimenting with the hanky code or trying new ways to experience pleasure, it can be fun and exciting to explore sex, intimacy and connection outside of the usual menu dictated by mainstream porn – and we’re excited to do just that with today’s video.
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