When I’m waiting in line at the market, I become impatient and inevitably check Grindr for distractions. If I don’t get my Amazon order of toilet paper within the two day shipping window, I curse Jeff Bezos and Amazon Prime. And if I text a friend without an instant reply, I assume they’re dead.
The reality is, we live in a world of increasing speed. Everything is faster and faster, if not instantaneous. And while the advances of technology allow many wonderful things – including this website and my career – there is a downside to instant gratification and our inability to…. just…. slow…. down.
Today’s Himeros.tv video is titled On The Edge and features two models engaging in the practice of edging. And while edging can be a solo exercise, this video demonstrates how it can work between two lovers or fuck buddies. Check out the free preview here.
So, what is edging and why do it? Edging involves stimulating yourself or your partner almost to the point of ejaculation. You find that special “edge” without crossing it. And just as you’re about to reach the point of no return, you back down and take a break. And then, you continue again. And again. Edging can last for hours, days or even weeks.
Edging tends to magnify sensations. We feel more deeply. Pleasure is amplified. The orgasm is intensified. By slowing down, it also allows us to see ourselves – and our partner – more clearly and fully.
When edging is demonstrated between two men on film, it’s usually done in a way that emphasizes domination, torture and punishment. The receiver begs for permission to cum. And while this can be hot, it’s certainly not the only flavor of edging.
Today’s video explorers a more sensual side to edging that involves licking, kissing, tickling and gentle touch. For me, it feels a bit more accessible. And, it’s just as fun – and just as hot.
We may have limited time and even less patience. But in a world of instant gratification wherein time and attention are the ultimate currency, few things are more deserving of an indulgent splurge than our connection with other men.
Take time to edge.
Through explicit and erotic video content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Learn more at Himeros.tv.