When getting fucked, I’m the first to admit how difficult it is to not ejaculate. With the sexual energy building and pleasure shooting through my body, an ejaculatory release feels inevitable. But with a few simple techniques, you can learn to delay ejaculation – and, in doing so, elevate your anal sex to new levels of bliss and euphoria.
Today’s video is titled Cum Control During Anal Sex, and it demonstrates techniques for controlling ejaculation. If you’re not a member, you can watch a preview here.
Front and center is breath. By breathing deeply, you’re able to prolong ejaculation. The breath to use is one which begins below the base of the balls, and rises to the belly. It can help to visualize the breath moving upward. Alternate the breathing speed from deep, slow, and full, to faster-paced.
If you’re topping, it can help to breath with the bottom. Encourage him to follow your lead.
As the energy builds and you feel ejaculation approaching, movement and sound are also helpful tools. In particular, slowing down and shaking out your body can help. Even slapping the bed or punching a pillow releases energy. Similarly, let out sound. Make noise. Grunt or groan. Release the energy.
It can be helpful to model the speed and intensity of anal sex after undulating waves. At the crest, the speed and penetration is heightened and more aggressive. But as you lull into the trough of the wave, things slow down. Cycling between the crest and trough, and moving from higher to lower intensity, helps prolong ejaculation.
If necessary, you can stop altogether. Take a break. And continue when you’re ready.
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