In New England, there’s God, the Red Sox and ice cream. In no particular order.
Growing up, the best part of summer was afternoon trips to the ice cream shop; it was the perfect end to a hot, long summer day. I remember racing to finish my cone before it melted. And I remember wearing my sticky fingers as a badge of honor.
It’s a sweet memory of pleasure and innocence – and something that I wanted to translate erotically. And that’s exactly what we did through this week’s Himeros.tv video titled Ice Cream Sex. Check out a NSFW preview here. Or, Himeros.tv members can watch the full film.
For me, few things are hotter than the contrast between the sacred and the profane. Who doesn’t enjoy the perversion of purity – and what better way to do that than the combination of ice cream and gay sex? Two scoops, please.
Ice Cream Sex also reminds us that sex is fun. It invites all of us to infuse our sexual experiences with creativity, laughter and joy. We’re reminded that sex is too important to take seriously.
But the gooey, drippy fun of Ice Cream Sex requires some serious clean up. And that’s why Ice Cream Sex is divided into two chapters. In the second half of the video, once the energy and excitement quiets down, the guys transition into another contrast of the sacred and profane: a beautiful bath.
As sex coach Finn Deerhart writes:
Bathing together has been a sacred ritual for men for centuries. Through time and across cultures, men have come together to bathe, to share camaraderie, sexual energy and even spiritual union. The act of disrobing ceremonially, and washing away the cares of the world together, can be super hot and bonding.
To bathe with a lover allows space to give and receive pleasure in creative ways that build sexual tension. The heat from the water, the silky feel of his skin beneath the surface, and the tangle of limbs seeking space and permission to melt sets an incredible mood for connection. The body can deeply relax, connect sensually, and open up for a heightened energetic experience. The mind relaxes, too, forgetting about sex roles and performance.
Rather than dripping ice cream, a different kind of melting occurs during the sacred bath. Boundaries are loosened, and the two men melt into each other. Watching this communion on film is mesmerizing – and almost religious.
Wether or not your sex involves ice cream, whipped cream, hot fudge or warm baths, I hope you’re inspired by the fun and connection demonstrated by today’s video. And regardless of where your sexual adventures may take you, please keep wearing those sticky fingers as a badge of honor.
Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Learn more at Himeros.tv.