Since you’re on this website, I’m going to make an assumption: You probably enjoy orgasming and ejaculating. But why? Why is it so awesome? And what makes semen so special?
Several months ago, I connected with sex coach Finn Deerhart about a video concept called Cummy Undies. Today, I’m excited to share that video on Himeros.tv. Check out a free preview. Or, if you are a Himeros.tv member, watch the full video.
Finn had a lot to say on the subject of orgasm and ejaculation:
The moment of orgasm is sheer bliss. It takes us into a space and time that is as immense as we can imagine. The thrilling heights that we can experience in sexual connection reflect the shadowy depths into which we are willing to plummet in search of our own personal truths. We seek orgasm for so many reasons.
Often it is for the physical wonderment, the abandonment of the routine lives that can close in around us. When we cum, we are affirming that we are spontaneous, alive, even radical, since we have been told that our kind of sexual delight is forbidden.
Semen itself is imbued with so much meaning and energy. We consume it and fetishize it. It validates that we have done a good job when we beckon it from our partner’s cocks. Cum announces our own self-authority and desire to surrender to pleasure. It is also deeply feared because of its ability to transmit pathogens into our bodies. It holds so much power in our imaginations for so many reasons.
Ultimately, it is a sacred well of regeneration made deeply within the recesses of our bodies, urging us to share it, spread it, recognize it. It is a stream that continues to flow until we die, connecting us to the cycles of life and death. It has the power to create another human! If we let it, our cum can be religious, a way for us to symbolize our own intentions becoming manifest.
Whatever it is that cum symbolizes for you, and however it is that orgasms make you feel, it’s exciting to discover creative ways to experience those things. And Cummy Undies does a beautiful job of illustrating one such way.
Filmed in London, Cummy Undies features a sexy couple playing together. In my mind, the scene unfolds just before work. One partner is on his way out the door… but he can’t resist the erotic pull of their connection – and a hot quickie unfolds.
But rather than follow the usual script, this couple tries something different. Something juicy. At the moment of ejaculation, one partner blows a huge load into his lover’s underwear. Without missing a beat, the lover puts on the undies – and then suits up for the workday. All the while, carrying around his partner’s hot load, imbued with their love and passion.
It’s a little raunchy, but somehow almost romantic. Writing this blog post, I find myself wishing that I was wearing a pair of cummy underwear. Even if the cum is my own.
Come to think of it, why not? So, if you’ll excuse me, I’m going to cut this short and give it a try. And I hope you do, too.
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