As much as I love visiting different cities and meeting new people, I never look forward to airports, planes and travel. But after a successful and invigorating Himeros.tv shoot in Toronto, I wanted to do something special to keep my erotic energy up.
I remembered an exercise that tantric coach Brad Amberheart shared with me a year ago. He called it the “Hot Little Secret In Your Pants” and it’s designed to raise your energy and excitement. And it involves a sexy pair of underwear – which, in my case, means a jock strap.
Instead of my normal boxer briefs, I opted for a classic white jock strap on my trip home. I concealed the jock strap with a pair of sweatpants, and no one knew the difference. And yet, I couldn’t help but feel totally aroused by this sexy secret. Each time I moved or shifted, I could feel the jock strap rub against my body – and it sent tingles up and down my spine.
And yet, no one knew that I was wearing a jock strap.
Well, I shouldn’t say no one. I’m sure a few curious onlookers may have noticed when I reached for the overhead compartment and the elastic band of the jock was revealed. But truthfully, I wasn’t doing it for them. I was doing it for myself and that extra little zeal.
It’s funny how something so simple can make such a big difference. I had more sexual energy, more excitement and even more passion.
Brad once said that tantra isn’t just about finding more passion in bed. It’s about finding more passion in life. And the hot little secret in my pants, helped me a find a bit of both.
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