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    By Davey Wavey, Founder of Himeros.tv

    August 1, 2019

    During this week’s Himeros LIVE podcast, we discussed an email that was sent in from an 80 year old man. The email was especially emotional, and I wanted to share it – and our response – with you.

    Here’s the email:

    Two of your recent posts really hit close to home. One on Catholicism, and one on older gays. I have devoted my entire life to the Church from my teen years (Organist, choir director) and complete adult life (church Secretary and then owner of a Catholic bookstore). Even though I knew I was gay from the age of four, I have never had sex with anyone because of a little Church rule about not having sex before marriage.  The worst part?  I am now 80 years old.

    Only within the past two years have I come to the belief that I do not believe in a god, and have lived a life of unfulfilment of what I am:  A gay man.

    Even at my extreme age, I am trying to change my life.  Yes, I am old, have an ugly, out of shape body, and am completely innocent and ignorant of how to even have sex with another guy, but I now have a goal of becoming fuckable and doing it at least once before I die.

    Though I live on Social Security and can not afford a subscription to a site like Himeros, I want you to know how much I appreciate your You Tube presentations and the gorgeous Himeros promos.

    Be impressed.  I just told you what I have never shared with anyone!

    Watch our response below:

    Through juicy erotic content, Davey Wavey created Himeros.tv for gay men to have hotter sex, to experience toe-curling pleasure and to fulfill their deepest desires. Watch free previews or join at himeros.tv.

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  • Reply William Paul Plumlee August 1, 2019 at 10:20 am

    … the world we live in now has evolved in part because 1) AIDS and the related carnage, which oddly brought attention to the basic humanity of our community in a similar way that the Holocaust brought light to the dehumanization of the Jewish People … sad that it takes that kind of extreme … and two because of individuals in my generation and before willing to take ass beatings on the street (even in San Francisco in the 80s) for being out with who we are, and getting up the next day, rinsing and repeating being ourselves without apology. I agree with the comment you mention from a young member that there isn’t enough cross generational interaction. Quite a lot of that seems to be a lack of appreciation for the struggle from mine and previous generations (the struggle of course continues) toward the greater ease we feel today, and a fear of still sexual older men, and the specter of mortality.

  • Reply Steve August 2, 2019 at 1:13 pm

    … I happen to be in a long-time relationship with an older man, and I have always been attracted to older guys, both gay and straight. I would add to your response that there are many people just like me who prefer the silver fox type. Having lived in NYC for almost 20 years, it was more difficult to find or hook up with older men because the social scene is highly dominated by the younger crowd. I relocated to Palm Springs, California in 2014 and I just love it here. There is a very large community of older retired men, and it is a vibrant – and growing community. Lots of social activities and so easy to meet people and make new friends. Great place to visit, and to hook up with other men for sex. Naked hugs, Steve.

  • Reply Mike August 3, 2019 at 5:47 am

    I have to say that I wept when I read this gentleman’s letter. His experience is similar to mine in that I lived my life by other peoples values but I was lucky enough to do something about that when I was 40. Still, all those years before that were wasted. I truly hope this man gets the help he needs and finds happiness.

  • Reply Greg August 6, 2019 at 9:04 am

    Alas, there is still a prevailing youth culture in the “Gay Community”. Thankfully, though, there are now social groups available (at least in urban areas) for gay folks that aren’t specifically youth-focused. “Prime-Timers” is one. Here in Boston, we have a number of Meetup groups that are primarily social (rather than hookup) in nature, where there is a fair amount of inter-generational community.

    I agree that younger gay folks could definitely benefit from the kind of mentoring that older gay guys like myself could provide. The question is, do young folks see the value of this? Or are they ready to assume that any older guy (“Older” being a relative term) who talks to them is hitting on them? I think the work that is happening here on Himeros can go a long way to addressing these questions.

  • Reply Reginald August 12, 2019 at 5:28 pm

    I think that was so touching and I think you and the other two men were compassionate with your responses. While I do believe opportunities do exist for inter generational socialising and love connections, we also have to be honest and say that young people just aren’t interested in older guys or place any value in us. I can speak from my own personal experience. I’m 52, fit, friendly and very fuckable. I get a lot of attention from men of all ages but it’s also surprising how many young guys shut it down if I attempt to be friendly, the number of times I’ve read reviews of local gay establishments and there are always people saying this place or that place is good if you’re into old, out of shape people etc… sometimes seeing those comments hurt but those same people when their behaviour is fished out to them cannot handle it. I was always turned on by older men and it was the older, daddies, leather and bear guys who showed me friendship and helped shape me into the man I am today. I say that only to say if any young guys are reading these comments, don’t dismiss us older guys we do have value and we can share experiences and learn from each other.

    Keep up the great work Davey

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