There are so many things that turn me on.
Feet. Piss. Nipple play. Jock straps and bulges. Autofellacio. Muscle worshipping. Wrestling uniforms. Baseball players. The list goes on and on.
But my biggest turn on isn’t tangible. It’s not something you can wear, or buy and – it’s not a sex position.
Instead, my biggest turn on is something that is discussed and communicated from one partner to the other. My biggest turn on is when a guy has a well thought-out answer to the age-old question: What are you into?
If you’ve ever used a hookup app or dating site, you’ll know that it’s one of the first questions that guys ask. But the answers usually play it safe and involve some combination of kissing, sucking, rimming and fucking. I mean, aren’t almost all of us into those things?
I want the full and honest answer.
I want to know the details. I want to know what makes your toes curl. I want to know your fantasies.
And if you’re able to communicate all of that to me, I’m completely turned on by your self-knowledge and vulnerability.
The other day, I asked a sexy 20 year old this very question. His response was one of the best that I’ve ever received.
I’ve reproduced it here, with his permission:
I love jocks and sexy undies. I love all kinds of toys, they just add such a fun dynamic. I’m into cuckolding both as the cuck but also kind of the alpha. Sitting under a hot jock while he pisses on me is a huge turn on, and I’ve been wanting to explore that a bit more. I can get into a little bit of dom/sub play with some light bondage. And role playing is always fun as well. I’m really open to trying new stuff, because why not. Life’s too short not to have fun.
Yes, honey! “Know thyself,” I wanted to cheer!
Also, kudos to this 20 year old for being so tuned-in to his desires. For many of us, it takes decades and decades of experience to discover what we want. And even longer to feel comfortable communicating it.
Indeed, sharing your desires can make a person feel vulnerable or exposed.
For my part, I do my best to put the “what are you into?” question into some context and padding. I try to communicate that I’m very open-minded, and that I’m genuinely interested in knowing what the other person wants. It makes people feel a bit safer, and perhaps a bit more likely to let you in.
So having said all of that… What are you into?
Let me know in the comments below.
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